My Story

A headshot of Ellen Bremen. She is wearing a dark pink sweater and smiling. She has dark blond hair and kind eyes.

I’ve been there—I’m a first-generation college student who struggled, failed, and fell into the wrong career.

At 20, I floundered, directionless, through core classes at my junior college. Then, my father suddenly died at 51. I didn’t who to turn to for support, so I dropped out—for six years.

In high school, I dreamt of a journalism career, but my parents divorced when I was 15, and they had no college plan for me, financially or otherwise. In fact, I left high school early and finished through correspondence courses. A secretary handed me my diploma.

After my abrupt college exit, I landed work with a skill my mother, a home-trained secretary, taught me when I was young: typing. She said, “If you know how to type, you’ll always have work.”

She was right. A doctor’s office hired me to type medical notes, which grew into a career and even a small business in medical transcription. By age 24, I bought a home, something even my parents had never done.

I should have felt successful. I turned my life around. Yet I was miserable. I’m an extrovert and working home alone was atypical back then.

I didn’t choose this path. Circumstance chose it for me. But I was financially stuck. I couldn’t stop working, and I couldn’t change careers without returning to school. But to do what?

Then, a turning point: I started teaching continuing ed courses on transcription at my local two-year college. That led to a part-time teaching job in the Health Information Management department.

Bingo! I loved teaching. Could I be a college professor? Um, no. Professors need an advanced degree. I had no degree and a messy transcript.

I could not stay in transcription once I found a career that excited me. So I hatched a plan to improve my GPA and get my education completed in record time. I returned to my two-year college and learned that I could “purge” my drop-out term (called academic forgiveness), which nudged my GPA upward. I took more classes, and applied to the University of Nevada, Las Vegas (my hometown college) as soon as my GPA improved.

UNLV’s Post-Secondary/Workforce Education Bachelor’s program granted “workforce” credits to working professionals who could potentially teach in that professional field. This boost in credits—30!—enabled me to complete my two-year degree (A.A.) and a Bachelor’s degree in three years. I completed my Master’s degree in two years. After graduating, I was extremely fortunate to have a tenure-track teaching job.

So, I can relate. I've been in academic turmoil. I was stuck in the wrong profession. I didn't know how to turn it around for a long time.

But here's what that experience taught me: Traditional paths don't work for everyone. Systems can be navigated strategically—if you know who to talk to and what questions to ask. And sometimes you need someone who will do the research, make the calls, and build you a roadmap when it’s hard to see the way forward yourself.

That's the support I wish I'd had. I promised myself that if I ever reached my teaching goal, I'd become that support for others. Not a gatekeeper. Not someone who gives generic suggestions. Someone who does the investigative work, finds the alternatives, and gives you concrete tools to move forward—whether you're just starting out or starting over.

That's what I provide now.

Qualifications

Since 2004, I've been tenured faculty at Highline College with a full academic and career advising caseload. As faculty at Darton College (University of Georgia system) for four years, I was recognized as Advisor of the Year.

My daily work keeps me current on career trends, labor markets, and employability skills. I guide everyone from 16-year-olds to mid-career professionals through academic and career transitions. I have expertise in transfer pathways, professional-technical programs, nontraditional options like Running Start, Worker Retraining, and Prior Learning Assessment.

As a 25-year higher education employee, I'm a resourceful advocate and red tape navigator—I know how to clear obstacles and keep people on track toward their goals.

I hold an M.A. in Communication Studies and a B.S. in Post-Secondary Education/Workforce Development from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, plus an A.A. from College of Southern Nevada.

I've earned three national awards for innovation and authored Say This, Not That to Your Professor: 20 Talking Tips for College Success (Pearson). My advice has appeared in USA Today, the Washington Post, and U.S. News & World Report.

Publications

Say This Not That to Your Professor: 20 Talking Tips For College Success

Readers learn how to communicate professionally in common classroom situations, such as overcoming grade confusion, respectfully challenging a professor, dealing with zeroes and extra credit, and managing late work or absences.

Learn More Here! →

Washington Post
College101: Communication
is Critical in Online Classes, Too
If communication between students and professors is important in a face-to-face class, it’s imperative in an online class. Without in-person, in-class nudges from profs, online students can quickly fall behind; some remain terminally behind.

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USA Today
6 Things You Should Say
to Your Professor

You’re in a bind or you’re confused. What should you say to your professor?

When speaking to professors, you’ve been warned about what you shouldn’t do (tick them off!). Here are strategies to get a productive conversation going today!

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  • "Our son was uncertain about higher education and high school until I happened to connect with Ellen in a mom’s group. Ellen helped to demystify and untangle the options available to high schoolers looking for a non traditional path forward. Ellen talked us through connecting to a program, college policies, and when/how to self advocate along the way. Thanks to Ellen, our son is getting ready to graduate high school and college with an AAS in the same year!"

    C.D.

  • "As I was receiving my college decision letters, getting directly accepted into the major was essential. I got accepted to my college, but not to the major I applied for, which would automatically cross it off the list. I didn’t know what to do since the college inner workings seemed impossible to navigate. Ellen immediately knew the people who could answer questions and helped me successfully deal with an appeal. This is one of the biggest reasons I am now in the program/major at my school. Ellen has the behind-the-scenes experience to open doors to more possibilities."

    B.T.

  • "My daughter doesn't fit the traditional mold of a student bound for a university. She was about to graduate high school without having applied anywhere and didn’t know what she wanted to do. Ellen interviewed my daughter and immediately helped her come up with an educational path and a potential career goal She’s helped my daughter access resources, make connections, and understand all the possible next steps. She is always available when we have questions and my daughter responds so much better to someone who isn't "mom." We are so thankful to have Ellen as our guide!"

    L.G.

  • From a Career Transition Client: “You have made a big impact on my prospects and in how I see my future employed self.”

  • From a Career Client Aiming for the C-Suite: "I am starting the formal offer process and my current work is still strategizing how to keep me. I did just send them my new resume which will be utilized for the pay negotiation, so that's great."

  • From a College Grad Parent: "Thank you for the nice email note/updates and for all of your work with (Client). I know he appreciates it, and I feel he has gotten a lot out of it."

  • From a Career Re-Entry Client: "I would be happy to be a reference for some of your new clients. I appreciated our time together and feel more confident now that I could succeed in a different field, so it would be easy to recommend your services!"

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